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Commitment and Love are marriage builders.

2009-12-25T23:32:00.000-08:00

by Norman CsarniMain marriage builders are commitment and love.They always go together. They are two sides of a coin, different but one. They are like inseparable twins; a pair of wings that becomes useless when one is gone. Without commitment, love could not keep marriage longer. Without love, commitment could not make marriage happier.

Commitment and love are marriage builders because they make lasting and happier marriage.

-Well, happy lovers and unmarried partners casually separate because of the absence or lack of commitment in their relationship.

-Arranged married couples, on the other hand, last decades but are not happy because of the absence or lack of love.

As married couples, you should live around these two main marriage builders.

These two main marriage builders are interdependent. The sense of commitment makes love more inspiring. Love makes commitment more enduring. If you do not love your spouse, you would less likely commit in your married life. If you do not commit, you would less likely love your spouse.

Love is indeed the greatest of all. It is however not the most permanent emotion without commitment.

I disagree with The Beatles' song love is all we need. We also need commitment. While love represents our heart, commitment signifies our will and action.

Love alone is not enough, as most unhappy married couples say. We have to act our love. As the euphoric love, often during honeymoon stage, dives down, commitment keeps it at the top or brings it back to the top. When commitment loses its endurance, love pumps it back to life.

Love is not at all we need. Commitment is neither enough. They always should go together, not only in marriage, but also in any relationship.

So, remember your vow. Love and commit to your spouse. It will certainly keep your marriage.

Norman Csarni may be contacted at http://www.buildmymarriage.com or normancsarni@gmail.com

Another marriage builders

2009-12-25T23:31:00.000-08:00

by Norman Csarni: :Another marriage builders are openness and honesty.Like love and commitment, they always go together. They are Siamese twins in effective communication for married life. With openness alone, communication is not authentic. With honesty alone, communication is limited. You cannot simply be open if you are dishonest. You cannot also be honest if you are not open. You have to be both for marital communication to be effective.

-Openness and honesty are two marriage builders because they facilitate effective communication. Whether you are the speaker or speaker, they are both essential. They also are interdependent.

-As a speaker, if you openly talk to your spouse with everything about your day without or less of truthfulness, the talk becomes fictional. An honest talk with limited substance can also be too concealing of truthfulness. As a listener, if you are open to anything your spouse says, but dishonest to your feedback, then the talk becomes shallow. An honest yet close and biased listening and feedback can discourage more talks.

Couples should always practice these two marriage builders. You have to be both open and honest. You have to openly tell your spouse of everything with truthfulness. You have to openly listen and honestly share your thoughts and feelings of what your spouse says.

Talk is indeed cheap if they are not open and honest. Talk is also costly if they are not open and honest. Imagine a married life with half-truths. Do they build happy marriages? Do they keep lasting marriages? I do not think so.

So, openly and honestly talk and listen to your spouse. It will keep your ring forever.

Norman Csarni grew up in Hungary, He was 25 years old when he came to the U.S. in 2000, and like many of his predecessors before him, he was in pursuit of the “American dream”. As he passed by the Statue of Liberty, the tears welled up in his eyes as his mind filled with hope for a better life for him and his bride, Victoria.

Norman Csarni may be contacted at http://www.buildmymarriage.com or normancsarni@gmail.com

Lasting Love, Love Lessons

2009-12-25T23:29:00.000-08:00

by Dr. Linda Miles:::Roberta and Burt maintained a Friendship on Fire for forty-five years. They laughed, declaring that they HAD to learn to work things out because the world felt too darn cold when they were at odds.

When Burt was dying of cancer, Roberta still saw the young man she first met. Although he weighed only ninety-five pounds and had an ashen color, she still felt their love. As he was dying on a Monday afternoon in the living room filled with memories, she expressed, "We have always worked things out together. I am with you now and I will find you again."

THE ENERGIES OF LOVE

John Claypool wrote after the death of his eleven-year-old daughter:

"...For years I took life for granted and assumed having a healthy family was precisely what I deserved. I see now what an astonishingly good fortune even a single day really is."

This book is designed to provide 52 weeks of fuel for a Friendship on Fire. You can have a loving and lasting relationship, but it takes skill and preparation. It must include the three components of an enduring fire: Spirit, Connection, and Safety. You do not need to do the readings in order. Start with the sections that speak to you. Since this book is based on commonly occurring problems in relationships, rest reassured that you are not alone. I have watched countless couples breathe a sigh of relief as this registers: "You mean this is not just us!"

As a seasoned psychotherapist, I have learned that it is often necessary to throw my advance preparation out the window because my clients specify exactly what they need during that session. I have learned to ask them what they need most at that time. With the "right here, right now" lesson in mind, I begin this Friendship on Fire journey with a questionnaire designed to identify your current issues and direct you to applicable sections.

Since this book is designed to give you 52 weeks of fuel for a loving and lasting relationship, it helps to complete the following questionnaire to identify what you need. Priority areas for your relationship. When you finish the questions, you will find references to page numbers that address the issues that you have identified.

In an ideal world, you might take a week for each section of the book and spend lots of time thinking about and discussing the "Your Turn" responses; however, chances are you will be interrupted. Start with what is most important and return to other sections later.

Answer "True" or "False" for the following questions. You may take this if you are alone or currently in a relationship. Answer what is most true for you at this time in your life. Regarding question 1, for example: you may feel isolated and lonely when you are with your current partner as much as or more than someone who does not have a partner. Regarding question 2: even if you are not in a relationship now, you may have had problems in the past with intolerance. This list features problems that couples frequently report, so you are not alone. The questions will help you to identify and attack the problems and not one another.

As you work on your relationship, your ability to sustain Friendship on Fire will increase. If you are doing this alone you will learn to do whatever kindles most love in your life. "Knowledge always demands increase; it is like fire which must first be kindled by some external agent, but will afterwards always propagate itself." (Samuel Johnson)

1. I feel isolated and lonely.
2. I am intolerant of my partner.
3. I resent my partner.
4. I lash out at my partner.
5. My partner lashes out at me.
6. Sex is a major problem for us.
7. I use criticism too often.
8. My partner uses criticism too often.
9. I have lost respect for my partner.
10. My partner has lost respect for me.
11. We avoid dealing with conflicts.
12. We need to learn how to fight fair.
13. Our life together is boring.
14. My life is too stressful.
15. I experience very little joy.
16. I feel as if I have lost track of who I am.
17. I have recently experienced a death in the immediate family.
18. I feel anxious a lot.
19. I feel a sense of emptiness.
20. I wish I could laugh more often.
21. We do not work well as a team.
22. We do not support one another when we are dealing with the children.
23. I experience a lack of purpose in my life.
24. I worry a lot.
25. My partner and I have lost our connection.
26. We have a hard time understanding one another.
27. I have lost trust in my partner.
28. My partner has lost trust in me.
29. I keep my unhappiness inside and pretend that things are OK.
30. I have felt depressed for more than a month.
31. I have a problem with drinking or drugs.
32. My partner has a problem with drinking or drugs.
33. I put myself down too much.
34. I feel like I always have to be the grown-up.
35. I wish we had a spiritual practice.

If you have a lot of "True" answers, remember that you have lots of company, as these represent common relationship problems. When more of us fire our minds with the passionate belief that our families can live by love, we spread light for others.

Discover Love,

Dr. Linda Miles may be contacted at http://www.drlindamiles.com or DrLinda03@aol.com

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2009-07-13T10:11:00.000-07:00

Este estilo es mucho tiempo para que la novia no siempre aparecen como eran las personas que estaban obligados a usar su imaginación. Pero este no es el caso más. La novia de hoy está pasando exactamente quién es y el día de su boda que sea conveniente para brillar.

Con la tendencia cabello corto frescas y sensuales, es sólo que el día de la boda debe ser eliminado, así tiene sentido. Puedes buscar un montón de peinados o descremada demasiado suave bobs mentón clásico, adorable y todos los demás cortes pixie Agile super corto y pequeño ir con. El hecho de que no necesitan todas estas elegantes rizos se cortan en su conjunto no puede crear una presencia. Es fácil en la playa para las bodas de verano, jardín, parque o en otro lugar mejor novia pareja elige. La novia, relajarse, mantener la calma y su poca "la recaudación de impuestos", sin preocuparse por la humedad Frizzo, como es común.

Sin embargo, lo cierto es que el cabello largo no quiere decir que es obsoleto. Fuera! N novia para su día especial es probable que se corte el pelo. Ella a veces para expresar su diosa interior que el pelo largo y glorioso quiere los medios. Una vez más, sin embargo, de fantasía "updos que busca." Espera este verano en el verano de novia de largo, a pesar de dar su TRESSES. Es lo que son y tienen la intención de expresarse en todos los sentidos. Él, sin embargo, algunos rizos sueltos o las olas pueden agregar a la definición y refinamiento. Además de los adornos para el pelo en su lugar con la gracia y la grandeza está listo para celebrar sus cerraduras